First of all, I have vowed to myself to finish blogging about our trip around Japan, but things got just a
liiiiiitle crazy after that last post and I would be remiss if I failed to talk about why...four days after my last post, Baby Bean (here on out also referred to as Bean, Peanut, Gizmo, Nugget, etc.) rocked our world! It has been a whirlwind since then, but mostly a completely wonderful whirlwind...

I spent about seven months seeing the same OB and planning to have our baby in Japan (with my mom's help) in the middle of a Misawa winter! Then came word that Eric was selected for an eight week class at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery, AL, which overlapped my due date. We had a very short amount of time to act and by New Year's Eve, I was on a plane to the good ole USA! Bean would be born in Alabama, not Misawa (didn't miss the Misawa winter too much on those 70 degree days in Montgomery). This huge change in itinerary was initially extremely stressful and continued to be unpredictable and ever-changing. It could have lead to an unhappy last trimester, but completely the opposite occurred. Amidst the chaos and stress, I had a happier third trimester, birth (don't get me wrong, that part was challenging like whoa!), and postpartum period than I ever thought possible. I can not say enough wonderful things about Eric's classmates, their families, and his instructors at SOS, the OB/GYN Associates of Montgomery, Baptist Medical Center East, or the Residence Inn of Montgomery.
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| Striped shirt picture is almost the most pregnant I got...taken on Friday night before first trip to hospital. |
The first six weeks of Eric's class were so much fun! The members of Eric's "
flight"
were incredible people as were their family members who had also accompanied them to Montgomery. The group felt much more like family than new acquaintances or colleagues. The love and support we received from them was invaluable and their company during the last weeks of pregnancy made the time fly. And it was time well spent. I could go on and on about these special people and I will never be able to thank them for all they did (including giving us a most generous baby gift, loaning us baby gear that we did not have, driving us *multiple times* back and forth from the hospital when d-day arrived, and surrounding us with love and tons of admiration for our new baby before and after she arrived). His instructors were great too! Staying involved and in the loop as the end of my pregnancy drew near and even as labor progressed! They all cheered us on! A bonus from our time at Maxwell was that we also got to see our friends Chris, Sarah, and Jared from Altus while we were there. Chris and Jared were also there for SOS and Sarah for a different course. Oh! And without Chris' generous gift of the use of his ride, I would not have been able to make it to all my OB appointments!
So as for the birth...

I am not going to go into all the details, but the care I received from the OB/GYN Associates of Montgomery and the nurses, techs, staff at Baptist East was second to none. I would go back to have a baby with those folks any day of the week. I was lucky to be under such amazing care. I will never forget many of those people either. The super quick version of Bean's birth story is this: I went into labor at around 4:30am on Friday, February 14th (Vaentines Day) and baby girl was born on Sunday, February 16th at 9:19am. She weighed 6 pounds 9 ounces and was 19 inches long! She was the most beautiful thing we had ever seen. I am going to cry just thinking about it...
Here are some amazing things about her timing:
- She arrived one week and one day before her due date, which gave Eric a whole extra week's worth of time to be with her before he had to go back to Japan for a month. (Yes, he had to go back to Japan for a month between two courses he had at Maxwell).
- She was born on a Sunday morning of a three-day holiday weekend. This meant Eric could spend more time with us and not miss too much class.
- She was born the day Eric's dad was in Atlanta for business and had already planned to make the two and half hour drive to Montgomery to take Eric and me to dinner. This meant that he arrived at the hospital just an hour or so after Bean entered the world.
My parents also left their house to drive to Montgomery as soon as they heard I had finally been admitted to the hospital (2am) and picked up my sister on the way. My whole family arrived at the hospital just hours after Baby Bean was born.
The whole thing was
incredible.
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| Going "home" from the hospital today! |

After she was born, we had to move out of our base housing accommodations and into an extended stay suite...we chose to stay at the Residence Inn and it was one of the best decisions we made. The staff was incredibly warm and accommodating and we had plenty of comfortable and CLEAN space. We had a two bedroom suite with a large living area and full kitchen. My mom, dad, sister, Eric, baby, and me all stayed there together for the first week, then my dad and sister went home. A week or so after they went home, Eric's mom joined us in the suite for a few days. She was able to be there for Eric's graduation from SOS (because he had still been going to class during all this time). The hotel gave us all the space we needed to surround our baby girl with love during her first weeks of life (my uncle and cousin from Atlanta were even able to make the trip over for a visit). We felt so lucky to have this opportunity. Had she been born in Misawa, it would have been months (over a year for some) before most of these people would have been able to squeeze her.

Before we knew it, it was time to say goodbye to Eric. This was the hardest part of the entire journey. It was terribly painful to separate at that precious time, but we kept reminding ourselves that so many other people we know (and don't know) make much larger, much more dangerous sacrifices. That mantra helped us get through.
After Eric was back in Japan, my mom and I began the long road trip home to Maryland with Bean. She did amazingly well in the car. She slept the whole time waking only when she was hungry.
Side note: she is not like this in the car anymore. She now despises car seats, but that is a whole other story.
The trip from Montgomery to Columbia took us three days, but we took our time stopping to see many friends along the way. Another crazy thing about timing: one night we stayed with my mom's good friend in Hickory, NC. My sister just
happened to be visiting her boyfriend's family in a nearby town about 30 minutes away. She, Clint, and his family all came over to see us and meet Bean on the night we stopped in Hickory. What luck!
Back home in Maryland, the next month was spent enjoying a steady stream of visitors. Baby Bean met
so many of our favorite people (with the exception of those who were still too far away). She was loved on and snuggled by grandmas, grandpas, great grandma, aunties, great aunties, cousins, long time family friends who are like family, all my best girl friends, and more. It was wonderful. In fact, the only thing that could have made the whole time any more wonderful would have been having Eric there to experience it too. My mom took incredible care of me and I was quickly back to feeling like my old self. I only had to worry about caring for and loving Bean.
All women should be so lucky to transition into motherhood this way.
The month flew by and on April 4th, it was time to pick up Eric at the airport. He flew into Maryland to scoop up Bean and me for the trip home to Japan. He got to share a few precious hours with family (which included getting to meet our new nephew...another crazy thing about timing!!) before having to get back on the plane for yet another long flight.
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| Reunited and it feels so good! |
On April 6th, Bean took her first international flight (out of the womb) at exactly seven weeks old. She was such a trooper on that plane. She didn't have any problems with her ears and slept for most of our journey...and it was one. long. journey.
Since we have been back in Misawa, I have been adjusting to solo motherhood...meaning mothering her without all the love, support, and company constantly surrounding me. This has been every bit as challenging as many mothers before me warned it could (would) be. But it has also been wonderful.
She is the love of our lives and we are so glad she is here.
And I
will finish the dang blogs about our Japan trip! The upside of her hating car seats so much is that I am not more behind on my blogging than that...it's not like we are racking up the adventures right now. We are only on one adventure...the newborn adventure...
Three Hergs, One Adventure.