I spent about seven months seeing the same OB and planning to have our baby in Japan (with my mom's help) in the middle of a Misawa winter! Then came word that Eric was selected for an eight week class at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery, AL, which overlapped my due date. We had a very short amount of time to act and by New Year's Eve, I was on a plane to the good ole USA! Bean would be born in Alabama, not Misawa (didn't miss the Misawa winter too much on those 70 degree days in Montgomery). This huge change in itinerary was initially extremely stressful and continued to be unpredictable and ever-changing. It could have lead to an unhappy last trimester, but completely the opposite occurred. Amidst the chaos and stress, I had a happier third trimester, birth (don't get me wrong, that part was challenging like whoa!), and postpartum period than I ever thought possible. I can not say enough wonderful things about Eric's classmates, their families, and his instructors at SOS, the OB/GYN Associates of Montgomery, Baptist Medical Center East, or the Residence Inn of Montgomery.
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| Striped shirt picture is almost the most pregnant I got...taken on Friday night before first trip to hospital. |
So as for the birth...
I am not going to go into all the details, but the care I received from the OB/GYN Associates of Montgomery and the nurses, techs, staff at Baptist East was second to none. I would go back to have a baby with those folks any day of the week. I was lucky to be under such amazing care. I will never forget many of those people either. The super quick version of Bean's birth story is this: I went into labor at around 4:30am on Friday, February 14th (Vaentines Day) and baby girl was born on Sunday, February 16th at 9:19am. She weighed 6 pounds 9 ounces and was 19 inches long! She was the most beautiful thing we had ever seen. I am going to cry just thinking about it...Here are some amazing things about her timing:
- She arrived one week and one day before her due date, which gave Eric a whole extra week's worth of time to be with her before he had to go back to Japan for a month. (Yes, he had to go back to Japan for a month between two courses he had at Maxwell).
- She was born on a Sunday morning of a three-day holiday weekend. This meant Eric could spend more time with us and not miss too much class.
- She was born the day Eric's dad was in Atlanta for business and had already planned to make the two and half hour drive to Montgomery to take Eric and me to dinner. This meant that he arrived at the hospital just an hour or so after Bean entered the world.
My parents also left their house to drive to Montgomery as soon as they heard I had finally been admitted to the hospital (2am) and picked up my sister on the way. My whole family arrived at the hospital just hours after Baby Bean was born.
The whole thing was incredible.
| Going "home" from the hospital today! |
Before we knew it, it was time to say goodbye to Eric. This was the hardest part of the entire journey. It was terribly painful to separate at that precious time, but we kept reminding ourselves that so many other people we know (and don't know) make much larger, much more dangerous sacrifices. That mantra helped us get through.
After Eric was back in Japan, my mom and I began the long road trip home to Maryland with Bean. She did amazingly well in the car. She slept the whole time waking only when she was hungry.
Side note: she is not like this in the car anymore. She now despises car seats, but that is a whole other story.
The trip from Montgomery to Columbia took us three days, but we took our time stopping to see many friends along the way. Another crazy thing about timing: one night we stayed with my mom's good friend in Hickory, NC. My sister just happened to be visiting her boyfriend's family in a nearby town about 30 minutes away. She, Clint, and his family all came over to see us and meet Bean on the night we stopped in Hickory. What luck!
Back home in Maryland, the next month was spent enjoying a steady stream of visitors. Baby Bean met so many of our favorite people (with the exception of those who were still too far away). She was loved on and snuggled by grandmas, grandpas, great grandma, aunties, great aunties, cousins, long time family friends who are like family, all my best girl friends, and more. It was wonderful. In fact, the only thing that could have made the whole time any more wonderful would have been having Eric there to experience it too. My mom took incredible care of me and I was quickly back to feeling like my old self. I only had to worry about caring for and loving Bean.
All women should be so lucky to transition into motherhood this way.
The month flew by and on April 4th, it was time to pick up Eric at the airport. He flew into Maryland to scoop up Bean and me for the trip home to Japan. He got to share a few precious hours with family (which included getting to meet our new nephew...another crazy thing about timing!!) before having to get back on the plane for yet another long flight.
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| Reunited and it feels so good! |
On April 6th, Bean took her first international flight (out of the womb) at exactly seven weeks old. She was such a trooper on that plane. She didn't have any problems with her ears and slept for most of our journey...and it was one. long. journey.
Since we have been back in Misawa, I have been adjusting to solo motherhood...meaning mothering her without all the love, support, and company constantly surrounding me. This has been every bit as challenging as many mothers before me warned it could (would) be. But it has also been wonderful.
She is the love of our lives and we are so glad she is here.
And I will finish the dang blogs about our Japan trip! The upside of her hating car seats so much is that I am not more behind on my blogging than that...it's not like we are racking up the adventures right now. We are only on one adventure...the newborn adventure...
Three Hergs, One Adventure.



































